How to Choose the Best Hairstylist for Your Special Occasion (Because your big moment deserves great hair)

How to Choose the Best Hairstylist for Your Special Occasion

Because good hair isn't optional when you're having a main character moment.

Let’s be real—when you’ve got a big event coming up (wedding, prom, gala, whatever makes you break out the fancy shoes), your hair is not just hair. It’s a whole statement. And the right stylist? That’s your behind-the-scenes magician. But how do you find the one? The stylist who just gets it?

Here’s how to lock it in without losing your mind.

1. Know Your Look—and Your Hair

Before you even start stalking stylists, take a second to check in with your vibe. Are you going for soft waves with romantic curls? A slick, sculpted updo? Something whimsical and braided?
Now zoom in: What does your hair like to do? Is it thick, fine, curly, or super straight? Knowing this helps you narrow down who can actually handle your hair and your vision without turning it into a Pinterest fail.

2. Find Stylists Who Actually Specialize in Events

This is not the time to gamble with a friend-of-a-friend who “does hair sometimes.” You want someone who lives for weddings, proms, red carpets, and special occasions.
Start by diving into Instagram, bridal directories, or stylist booking platforms. Look for portfolios that show a range of styles—not just pretty pictures, but real hair on real people that makes you go YES, that one.

3. Read the Reviews—and Trust Your Gut

Once you’ve got a few names, stalk those reviews like you’re trying to solve a mystery. Look for comments on how the stylist communicates, whether they show up on time, and how people felt on the day of the event.
If someone makes multiple people say “they made me feel so calm and beautiful,” that’s a green flag. On the flip side—if they ghost people or can’t manage time well? Run.

4. Do the Trial—Seriously, Don’t Skip It

I get it, trials cost extra. But listen: this is the dress rehearsal for your hair. A trial is where you figure out if your “loose, effortless bun” idea actually works—or if it needs some tweaking (spoiler: it probably does).
Bring inspo pics, wear a similar neckline to your outfit, and speak up if it doesn’t feel right. A good stylist will love your honesty and adjust on the fly.

5. Book Early and Lock in the Details

The good ones go fast. Like, booked-out-months-in-advance fast. So once you find your hair match, don’t wait. Book your trial, confirm your event day, and get every single detail in writing—location, timing, payment, even who’s bringing the bobby pins.

Bonus tip: If you're doing a destination or outdoor event, ask how they prep for wind, humidity, or unexpected weather. A pro will always have a game plan.

The Bottom Line:

The right hairstylist won’t just make your hair look incredible—they’ll make you feel like you’re walking into your moment with confidence. So trust the process, do your homework, and when you find the one? Treat them like the gem they are.

You’re not just showing up—you’re showing off.